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    The meaningful life can result only from the experience of love and this implies commitment and dedication to another.

    We are each gifted with an enormous but unique potential. However, in our rendezvous with destiny, we have to take chances, run risks, get rejected and be hurt, be knock down and get back up on our feet.

    The only real failure is the one from which we learn nothing.

    Goodfinders are those who look for and find what is good in themselves, in others, and in all situations of life.

    Love person, use things! This is the truth that will set us free.

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What Love Does and Doesn’t


angel7ACCEPTS you wherever you are

AFFIRMS your goodness and giftedness

CARES about you, wants to know that you’re okay

CHALLENGES you to be all you can be

EMPATHIZES – knows what it’s like to be you

ENCOURAGES you to believe in yourself

IS GENTLE in its way of dealing with you

KEEPS CONFIDENCES – your secrets are safe

IS KIND – is always for you, on your side

LAUGHS A LOT, always with, never at you

LOOKS FOR GOODNESS in you and finds it

MAKES YOU FEEL GLAD that you’re you

OVERLOOKS your foolish vanities, human weakness

PRAYS for your needs and your growth

SEES good things in you that others had never noticed

SHARES itself with you, by self-disclosure

SPEAKS UP when you need someone to defend you

IS TACTFUL even when confronting you

TAKES RESPONSIBILITY for its own behavior

TELLS YOU THE TRUTH always and honestly

THINKS about you and your needs

IS TOUGH OR TENDER, depending on your needs

UNDERSTANDS your ups and downs, allows you ‘bad days’


4jcrocABUSE you or take you for granted

ASK you to march to a different drummer

BLAME you or carry angry grudges

BULLY you by anger, a loud voice, or tears

GET you into win-lose arguments

GIVE you unsolicited advice

JUDGE you or tell you ‘what your whole trouble is’

JUST TOLERATE you as a condescending favor

MAKE YOU PROVE yourself again and again

NEED always to be right, to have all the answers

POUT or refuse to talk to you

PUNISH you vindictively for being wrong

REMEMBER all the things you have done wrong

SEEK and call attention to itself

SHOW OFF, just to let you know where you stand

UNDERMINE your confidence in yourself

USE you for its own purposes and then discard you

VENTILATE its emotions on you as a garbage dump

WRITE YOU OFF because you didn’t meet its demands

John Powell, S.J. (1995), A Life-Giving Vision, How To Be A Christian in Today’s World, Thomas More – Tabor Publishing


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